[ This thought takes a while longer to get to come out clearly. There's a lot of typing and deleting. ]
Just because you're strong enough to handle things doesn't mean they should fall to you. Don't do painful things just because of that. How do you think it makes the people who care about you feel? I was so happy for you when you said you were excited about the possibilities here. Not being just an observer. It's so frustrating just to watch, isn't it? But I wanted you to use that chance for yourself, too.
[ Oh no. Now she's really crying. She has to put the device down for a minute. ]
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Just because you're strong enough to handle things doesn't mean they should fall to you. Don't do painful things just because of that. How do you think it makes the people who care about you feel? I was so happy for you when you said you were excited about the possibilities here. Not being just an observer. It's so frustrating just to watch, isn't it? But I wanted you to use that chance for yourself, too.
[ Oh no. Now she's really crying. She has to put the device down for a minute. ]